Monday, February 25, 2008

Karunakar ........ la la la

I am at my office waiting for Training to begin, its a beautiful day here in Melbourne.

ఇవాళ నాకు కరుణాకర్ కి మొదటి పరిచయాన్ని గుర్తు చేసుకుంటా ...............
బావ చేసిన పనికి hostel లో join అవ్వక తప్పలేదు . Hostel లో దిగి, సందీప్ ని పరిచయం చేసుకున్నాక, అలా వెళ్ళి మిగత బ్యాచ్ ని కలిశాను.అందులో అందరు బానే ఉన్నారు కానీ, కరుణాకర్ మాత్రం కొంచెం తేడా అనిపించాడు.

"మెక్యానికల్ ఐతే ఇంకేంటి ఛంపెద్డాం అన్నాడు"

వీడు ఎవడురా బాబు .......... ఇంత ఫాస్ట్ గా ఉన్నాడు అనుకున్నాను.
అధి first impression

తరవాత 4 years నాకు ATM లాగా కరుణాకర్ అనా మాట ...........నిజంగా ఆ నాలుగు years లో నేను ఎప్పుడు కూడా భయపడలేదు. ఏమైన ఐతే కరుణాకర్ ఉన్నాడు, వాడి బాంక్ అకౌంట్ ఉంది అని ధైర్యం. 4 years లో చాలా విశేషాలు ఉన్నాయి. బ్లోగ్ లో కూడా చాలా స్పేస్ ఉంది కాబట్టి మెల్లిగా ఒక్క ఒకటి గుర్తు చేసుకుందాం మా ట్రైనింగ్ స్టార్ట్ అయ్యేలా ఉంది ............

Bye now

Friday, February 8, 2008

బావకి నాకు మొదటి పరిచయం

Blog లో ఏమైన ఒక మంచి విషయం మీద రాద్డం అని start చేశాను.కానీ తీర start చేశాక ఎం రాయాలో అర్ధం కావట్లేదు.సరే అని బావ బ్లోగ్ ఓపెన్ చేశాను.
"గతం ఎంతో ఘనమైంది" అని ఒక చోట రాసాడు.

నిజమే ............ జరిగినవి అన్ని గుర్తు చేసుకుంటూ పోతే .................. ఇంకా బ్లోగ్ లో ఎం రాయాలి అని ఆలోచిన అక్కర్లేదు.

So నాకు engineering ముందు అంత ఘనమైన చరిత్ర ఎం లేదు కనుక. ఒక వెళ్ల్ల్ ఉన్న engineering అంత ఘనమైనది కాదు కనుక engineering నుంచి మొదలు పెడత.

ఇధి నాన్నగారు కూడా చదువుతారు కాబట్టి ముందు ఆయనకి ఒకటి చెప్పాలి."వీడు జాబ్ ఏమైన చేస్తునాద అని కంగారు పాడద్దుఇధి ఖాళీ గా ఉన్నప్పుడు మాత్రమే ఒక 15 నిమిషాలు రాస్తను అంతే"

Day One-

నేను గణేశ్ బాబై ఒంగోలే లో దిగి హాస్టిల్ లో సామాన్లు పడేసి కాలేజ్ కి వెళ్ళాం .......... హ్యాపీ డేస్ సినిమా లో చూపించనట్టు అంత గొప్ప గా ఎంలేదు కానీ ................ ఓ నాలుగు బిల్డింగ్స్, ఒక చిన్న క్యాంటీన్ .......చాలు లే అనుకున్నాను .................. formalities అన్ని అయ్యాక పరిచయం ఐన మొదటి వ్యక్తి మా బావ
హాస్టిల్ బావుంటుందా లేక బయట better అని బాబయ అడిగితే బాలేదు అని చెప్పించు దేవుడా అని నేను మొక్కని దేవుడు లేదు కానీ న ప్రాణానికి .................. బావ ఇంకా అరుణ్ గాడు "హాస్టిల్ చాలా బావుంది అంది ............. మేము అక్కడే ఉంటునం ...................... ఎం పర్లేదు" అని చెప్పారు

హాస్టిల్ లో ఉంటే మన సంగతాలు అన్ని ప్రిన్సిపల్ కి, తద్వారా బాబాయి కి, అలా ఇంటికి చేరిపోతాయి అని న బాధ ................ అధి బావకి నాకు మొదటి పరిచయం.

ఇంకా అక్కడ నుంచి చెప్పుకుంటూ పోతే అన్ని చెప్పాలి. కానీ బ్లోగ్ లో అంత స్పేస్ లేదు కాబట్టి ఈ రోజు కి ఇంతే .....నెక్స్ట్ పోస్ట్ లో మా ATM Centre ఎంట్రీ ...............................

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

I am Sorry Son

Idhi naa short stories lo first one. Chinna chinna kadhalu anni collect cheyalani start chestuna.
Bhayapadalsina pani ledhu ............... nenu raasinavi kadu. Chadivinavi matrame.
Hope u ppl like them.

Listen, son: I am saying this as you lie asleep, one little
paw crumpled under your cheek and the blond curls stickily
wet on your damp forehead. I have stolen into your room
alone. Just a few minutes ago, as I sat reading my paper
in the library, a stifling wave of remorse swept over me.
Guiltily I came to your bedside.

There are the things I was thinking, son: I had been cross
to you. I scolded you as you were dressing for school because
you gave your face merely a dab with a towel. I took
you to task for not cleaning your shoes. I called out angrily
when you threw some of your things on the floor.
At breakfast I found fault, too. You spilled things. You
gulped down your food. You put your elbows on the table.
You spread butter too thick on your bread. And as you
started off to play and I made for my train, you turned
and waved a hand and called, “Goodbye, Daddy!” and
I frowned, and said in reply, “Hold your shoulders
back!”

Then it began all over again in the late afternoon. As I
came up the road I spied you, down on your knees, playing
marbles. There were holes in your stockings. I humiliated
you before your boyfriends by marching you ahead of me to
the house. Stockings were expensive - and if you had to
buy them you would be more careful! Imagine that, son,
from a father!

Do you remember, later, when I was reading in the library,
how you came in timidly, with a sort of hurt look in
your eyes? When I glanced up over my paper, impatient at
the interruption, you hesitated at the door. “What is it you
want?” I snapped.

You said nothing, but ran across in one tempestuous
plunge, and threw your arms around my neck and kissed
me, and your small arms tightened with an affection that
God had set blooming in your heart and which even neglect
could not wither. And then you were gone, pattering up the
stairs.

Well, son, it was shortly afterwards that my paper slipped
from my hands and a terrible sickening fear came over me.
What has habit been doing to me? The habit of finding fault,
of reprimanding - this was my reward to you for being a
boy. It was not that I did not love you; it was that I expected
too much of you. I was measuring you by the yardstick of
my own years.


And there was so much that was good and fine and true in
your character. The little heart of you was as big as the
dawn itself over the wide hills. This was shown by your
spontaneous impulse to rush in and kiss me good night.
Nothing else matters tonight, son. I have come to your bed-side
in the darkness, and I have knelt there, ashamed!
It is a feeble atonement; I know you would not understand
these things if I told them to you during your waking
hours. But tomorrow I will be a real daddy! I will chum
with you, and suffer when you suffer, and laugh when you
laugh. I will bite my tongue when impatient words come. I
will keep saying as if it were a ritual: “He is nothing but a
boy - a little boy!”

I am afraid I have visualized you as a man. Yet as I see
you now, son, crumpled and weary in your cot, I see that
you are still a baby. Yesterday you were in your mother’s
arms, your head on her shoulder. I have asked too much,
too much.


Morale of the story –

Instead of condemning people, let’s try to understand
them. Let’s try to figure out why they do what they do.
That’s a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism;
and it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. “To
know all is to forgive all.”


As Dr. Johnson said: “God himself, sir, does not propose
to judge man until the end of his days.”


Why should you and I?

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Green Tea -------- To manage stress

Hi All. Good Morning. Its a very bright and beautiful day here in Melbourne.

Ebi lo join ayyina taravata veedu enti intha regular ga blog update chestunadu anukuntunara. Simple reason being - writing, i mean having a blog or scrapbook reduces your stress to a large extent anta. So inthakanna better emundi cheppandi.

Take a 10 min break, express yourself, adhi okasari chaduvukuni, malli back to work.

So ivala deni gurunchi cheppukundam.

Green Tea - Yesssss. Ivala nunchi instead of coffee, green tea tagutunnanu. Enduku ante chala reasons unnayi andulo konni.

Green tea has been used for stomach disorders, to prevent dental cavities, to lower cholesterol levels, as an antioxidant, to reduce cancer, and as a stimulant.

So more health consious ana mata.

Business Objects training day 2, baga jarugutondi, kani manaki engineering nunchi oke problem.

"మాకు మాత్రం చదవాలి అని ఉండదా, ఏంచేస్తాం పుస్తకం ముట్టుకుంటే నిద్ర వస్తుంది"
Bye now

Monday, February 4, 2008

I worry ........... and thats the key

In EBI right now, office బావుంది. Today met my CEO. Company గురుంచి introduction ఇస్తూ , success secret ఏంటి అంటే "I worry a lot about the company" అని అన్నారు. Success ఏంటి అని ఎవరికైన doubt వస్తే , 2006 లో start అయ్యిన ఈ company 2006 లో 1 million, 2007 లో 8 millions సంపాదించింది. ఇలాంటి ఒక 7 companies, he is CEO. In total his companies in 2007 earned around 84 millions.

పేరు - Stephen Mackley

ఇంకా తన speech lo points and మాకు పంపిన file lo points ఇక్కడ paste చేస్తున. Hope చదివిన వాళ్ళకి కొంచెం inspiring గా ఉంఢచు.

"To improve your emotional intelligence, you should be aware of how to manage your many emotions, including worry and anxiety. Worry and anxiety represent two different approaches to troubling thoughts or situations. However, while worry can have positive effects, anxiety can have negative effects. Worrying can assist you in reflecting upon and developing positive solutions to problems. On the other hand, chronic worry creates a cycle of anxiety and unproductive obsessive thoughts. Additional details about worry and anxiety, and some tips for dealing with these emotions, are provided below.

WorryWhen a troublesome thought triggers the emotional brain, worry kicks in. Initially, this generates constructive reflection, enabling you to evaluate the problem and assess solutions in a risk-free manner. Worry can serve a number of other useful purposes, including the following:
When you're threatened, worry enables you to assess your options, rehearse methods for dealing with them, and reflect upon desired outcomes.

Worry enables you to catastrophize—that is, to imagine the worst-case scenario. When you catastrophize, you imagine a series of terrible thoughts without a visual component. Because catastrophizing is expressed only as thoughts, not images, it does not leave a lasting impression.
Worry can suppress the physiological effects of anxiety. When you're worrying, your mind is occupied with a number of thoughts; meanwhile, anxious sensations are lessened because the mind is distracted from the original triggering thought.

AnxietyWhile worrying can have some positive effects, anxiety is a strictly negative experience. Anxiety focuses attention solely on the issue at hand and moves the mind to obsessing. This leads to an endless cycle of inflexibility and unrealistic perceptions, and limits an individual's ability to develop creative solutions. Anxiety causes physiological reactions such as sweating, a racing heart, and muscle tension. It causes an individual to ruminate on dangers of all kinds—even things that have no chance of happening. Anxious people see trouble at every corner. In extreme cases, some people can even become addicted to anxiety.

Research has shown that the first step in minimizing anxiety is self-awareness. You need to train yourself to identify situations that trigger worry, images that prompt worry, and sensations that signal anxiety in the body. Once aware of anxious thoughts, you should actively challenge them. To do this, you should question your assumptions and maintain a healthy skepticism about the occurrence of worst-case scenarios.

Worrying puts you in a frame of mind that enables you to rehearse and evaluate possible solutions, while anxiety builds on itself and leads to unproductive, obsessive behavior. Learn to recognize the difference between worry and anxiety, and remember that worrying is a natural, healthy emotional response to troubling thoughts and situations. However, anxiety can have negative effects. Therefore, practice the techniques described above to deal with anxiety, and minimize its negative effects. Using these techniques, you can work to improve your overall emotional health."